Wedding Guide • The Groom's Handbook
What Shoes Should a Groom Wear? (The 2025 Rules)
By Imam Karakus • Founder, Shoescoo
You have the ring. You have the venue. You have the suit. Now comes the question that trips up most men: "What shoes should a groom wear?" The wrong choice can ruin your photos (and your feet). The right choice elevates your entire look.
Rule #1: Match the Formality
Finding the perfect shoes for groom isn't about picking the most expensive pair; it's about matching the formality of your attire.
The Tuxedo = Black Oxfords
If you are wearing a tuxedo, the rule is non-negotiable. You need a Plain Toe Oxford (like our Marquis model). It must be black, it must be polished to a high shine, and it should not have excessive stitching (broguing).
Avoid: Brown shoes, loafers, or chunky soles.
The Navy or Grey Suit = Monk Straps or Derbies
For a classic suit, you have more freedom. Groom dress shoes in dark brown, burgundy, or polished black work beautifully. A Double Monk Strap adds a modern, sophisticated edge that looks fantastic in photos.
The Summer/Garden Wedding = Loafers
Getting married on the beach or in a vineyard? A tassel loafer is the stylish choice. It keeps you cool and pairs perfectly with linen or light-colored suits.
The "Comfort" Secret
You will be standing for 8+ hours. You will be dancing. Do not sacrifice comfort for style. Shoescoo’s wedding shoes for groom are built with sneaker-like insoles hidden inside elegant leather silhouettes. Look for "all-day comfort" technology.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
- Wearing them for the first time on the wedding day: Break them in at home 2 weeks before.
- Ignoring the socks: Match your socks to your trousers, not your shoes (unless you go for a fun pattern).
- Choosing style over fit: If they hurt in the store, they will be torture on the dance floor.
Conclusion: It's Your Day
When asking "what shoes should a groom wear," remember that confidence is key. Whether you choose a classic Oxford or a bold Monk Strap, make sure they are polished, comfortable, and distinctly you.
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