Dress Code Series • Etiquette Guide
Modern Funeral Etiquette: How to Dress with Respect in 2026
By Imam Karakus • Founder, Shoescoo
A funeral is not a place to make a fashion statement; it is a place to show respect. However, dressing correctly is one of the most visible ways to honor a legacy. In 2026, while dress codes have softened elsewhere, funeral etiquette remains a bastion of traditional respect.
Dignity in detail: The classic black Oxford is the ultimate symbol of respect.
The Foundation: The Dark Suit
While black is the traditional standard, dark charcoal or deep navy are also perfectly acceptable in a modern setting. The goal is to be understated. Avoid bright patterns, loud pocket squares, or anything that draws attention away from the solemnity of the occasion.
The Footwear: The Zenith of Respect
When it comes to funerals, the Black Oxford is the non-negotiable standard. Its closed lacing system and sleek silhouette convey a level of seriousness that loafers or boots cannot match. Our Marquis Oxford in Black is specifically crafted for these moments—minimalist, master-crafted, and profoundly respectful.
Quick Etiquette Checklist:
- The Shirt: Crisp, plain white. No button-down collars if possible.
- The Tie: Solid black, navy, or deep burgundy. No bold patterns.
- The Shoes: Polished black leather. Ensure they are scuff-free.
- The Grooming: Clean-shaven or a neatly trimmed beard.
Why Polish Matters
Taking ten minutes to polish your shoes before a funeral is more than just maintenance—it is a gesture of effort and respect for the family. Because Shoescoo shoes are made from premium full-grain leather, they hold a deep, respectful shine that reflects the gravity of the day.
Ready When It Matters Most
These moments often come unexpectedly. We understand that you may need a respectful attire on short notice. Shipping directly from Chicago, Shoescoo ensures that your Zenith Oxfords arrive in days, allowing you to focus on what truly matters during difficult times.
